I’ve tried all kinds of dating, online, offline, it can be fun, exciting but you also have those moments of frustration, disappointment and just wanting to give up.
Speed dating in the United States has spread all over the numerous states, and venues with dating ambience sell like a consumers’ piece of commodity in a large department store or Walmart.
Speed dating caters for the busy middle-aged or younger professionals alike, the elderly senior citizens, and those youth in the Universities.
Speed dating has open a most favorable setting for fun seekers, lonely individuals, and especially those busy people who find it hard to deviate socializations with people other than their daily colleagues that bind bridges in-between familiarity and monotony; or, due to long-term acquaintances, posing for acknowledged brotherly/sisterly-mode relationships.
However, in most cases, those who patronize the practice of the modern-day speed dating are really those seekers for future partners in life.
Subjectively, a respective view of each speed dater could be considered depending on their motives, or reasons behind why they enlist in such planned groups or one in one dating.
Various reasons lie behind each individual, and causes always go to the basic instinct in humans, “gregariousness” in relation to his environment. The need to socialize, and the core, is to get an intimate dealing with another of his kind; a friend, a life partner, or whoever may suit his need.
Classifying the Individual Need in Speed Dating from Several Group Categories:
- The Teenagers in the Universities and other Young singles – These group go for speed dating; which for them, it open new experiences, new level approach as part of growth and development. Some visions at experimentations that go with excitement when experiencing new type of social approach, or atmosphere other than in their homes and with childhood friends.
- The Corporate Professionals/Middle-aged and other Busy Young Single Employees – They are self-sufficient in their own rights, have consumed so much hours enclosed in the confines of corporate offices; and are accomplished contributors to the growth of their respective companies. They have forgotten they are also humans, only to find out later they had outgrown with age in prioritizing their career interests rather than on their personal lives.
Also, those other employees who no longer have the opportunity to go socializing for reason that they might miss their first encounters with their chosen career opportunities. Professionals who outgrown in age because of the responsibilities, they fear to neglect for it might devaluate any high rank post of aspirations in the corporate environment. All these are reasons; why in the long run, they seek speed dating as the quickest way coping with lost times, and capitalizing the greater chance of finding partners amidst busiest atmosphere in their lives.
- The Senior Citizens – They maybe widowers, widows, divorced, and aged singles (in youth let time passed over) let alone to themselves because of this or that reasons. Speed dating offers a lot of chances for them to makeover for past and lost experiences. The widower/widow or divorced find it fulfilling to prospect at having another life in order to move on. And the aged single will find it exiting to experience this in his old age and later realized how silly it was to have lost such portion in life.
Generally, one has to figure out, what about having speed dating popularly favored in the 21st century society. For those aforementioned people in their respective categories and ages, speed-dating practice sounds relevant and offers par degree advantage.
Of course – with the Cover-19 crisis still being a huge problem – be mindful, wear a mask (what a great opportunity to focus on your date’s eyes!) and as always, be safe!