Who is supposed to make the first move? The man or the woman? Old school is out, there is nothing wrong for a woman to make the first move especially if it’s a woman who likes to take charge in other areas of her life. Be who you are. As for men, if a woman does not make the first move it doesn’t mean necessarily that she’s not interested, maybe she’s just old school or shy. Again, showing confidence is a good thing. Just imagine you both are waiting for the other person to make the first move and nothing will ever happen. Missed opportunities!