Long term booty call

Nina – long term booty call and the return of the stalker

Things were going in the wrong direction, her bipolar behavior was surfacing in texts and even more on the phone

Go SOUTH – life is awful there…. (Village People)

Me: Good morning 8:29 AM 

Nina: Good morning. You’re up early 8:31 AM 

Me: The early bird catches the worm 8:39 AM 

Nina: So what are you trying to catch today. Because usually you don’t wake until after 9 8:57 AM 

Me: I always get up at 8 (with a few exceptions) 8:59 AM 

Nina: Ahh I see. I’m up early to go get this outdoor lighting, money and wait for this plumber. This afternoon I have three appointments for the selection of a maid 9:05 AM 

Nina: cleaning services 9:05 AM 

Me: Don’t get Molly Maid, they are terrible here in town or it was a coincidence. 9:09 AM 

Me: Did you check the reviews of all three online? 9:10 AM 

Nina: So I usually try to give back to the community by hiring non-big box companies like Molly maids so I haven’t really seen any reviews 9:11 AM 

Nina: But you know psychology and all you can pretty much weed out the bad by engaging in conversations that are random and seeing how they react 9:11 AM 

Me: ok 9:12 AM 

Me: Jeff Bezos (the Amazon guy) made 12 Billion Dollars in 1 day with his stocks. I lost like 700 Dollars yesterday, lol 9:15 AM 

Nina: Oh wow! Lol. So you do investments. Something new I learned about you. Lol. Is it worth it? Do you really make money? 9:16 AM 

Me: I do but I do it myself so I don’t have a broker. Since day one (like 4 years ago) my investments went up by 27% which is not great but ok. It’s better than the money sitting in my bank account. 9:18 AM 

Me: I never took the time to investigate all that more thoroughly, this is overwhelming. 9:19 AM 

Nina: What does that equate to in dollars? I’ve thought about investments but don’t know how to do it… my dad was gonna teach me… but he left overseas… maybe 9:24 AM 

Nina: you can. 9:24 AM 

Nina: Can you walk away at anytime? 9:24 AM 

Me: yes of course but that’s the mistake many people make. I have a total bond fond that is at -2.28% right now. Instead of panicking and selling it (with a loss) I rather wait since this is all long term, I don’t need the money so my plan is to leave it in there for years and most likely it will go up in time. I can’t see the future, my best stocks are at +68% so if I would have known then I would have bought more of those. For every 1000 Dollars the worth is not 1680 Dollars. 9:27 AM 

Me: It equates in Dollars like this: For every 1000 Dollars I invested it’s at 1270 Dollars right now. 9:28 AM 

Nina: Yeah totally clueless… lol. So if invested 9000 what would it be at today at +68% 9:36 AM 

Nina: Brb gonna shower… id ask you to join but you already told me no once so I won’t ask ? 9:36 AM 

Me: Your 9000 would be worth 15120 9:39 AM 

Me: You better stop acting like a spoiled little brat, if somebody tells you no at some point that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask again, sometimes it’s just bad timing. I’m not saying ask today 9:40 AM 

Nina: ???? 9:43 AM 

Nina: You better stop being bossy 9:44 AM 

Me: wait until I get bossy and tie you up, you’ll be scared like a little French girl 9:47 AM 

Nina: Lol… doubt it 9:50 AM 

Me: you said you’re scared to be helpless 9:53 AM 

Me: so wyd? 10:33 AM 

Nina: At the bank 10:34 AM 

Me: oh, I thought you were still in the shower, lol 10:34 AM 

Nina: Lol. No I move fast. And i am afraid to be helpless… but I know you won’t hurt me… plus I know that I can control you any time I want 10:35 AM 

Me: Yeah right 10:36 AM 

Nina: You know I’m right 10:43 AM 

Nina: Wieland has eieishdjdiiidiifjdjjfjmckekrekriiddieudjzjwkkekjri 10:44 AM 

Nina: sorry my little one had my phone 10:44 AM 

Me: I’m glad she can’t read… yet 10:51 AM 

Me: guess you’re busy, I’m out and go to my bank in a minute 11:02 AM 

Nina: I am Home Depot… as usual.. ??? 11:05 AM 

Me: lol 11:11 AM 

Nina: I am home. You done at the bank? Ready to take me on a shopping spree? 12:39 PM 

Me: Hey, shopping spree? I thought you just came from one, you probably bought the whole Home Depot. 2:45 PM 

Me: When I left for the bank my phone was at 61%, I bough lunch, went to a few stores not recognizing that it actually died. How is that even possible? I probably have to replace the battery, you’re supposed to unplug the charger once it’s at 100% but at work I often don’t do that 2:46 PM 

Nina: Oh wow… here I was just like… oh, I brought up money… ha he’s ignoring me… 2:55 PM 

Nina: So this house is gonna be the death of me… still no access through the firewall… so I have to install an AC unit in garage… $2500… 2:57 PM 

Nina: and then how about I’m not getting air to the laundry room, dining room and or kitchen ??. So I have to call homeowners insurance and or american home Shield… that would explain why I can never cool down in certain parts of the house thus, getting a migraine.. 2:57 PM 

Me: I’m sorry to hear that. What do you mean “brought up money” and I’m ignoring you? I thought you want to buy me my new phone, lol 2:58 PM 

Nina: Because I said take me on a shopping spree (as a joke) I thought you got offended thinking I want a “rich man” as you once said 3:01 PM 

Nina: My phone is almost dead… 18% 3:02 PM 

Nina: I’ve been running with my worker all day… smh. And I still have to go back with him to Home Depot… 3:02 PM 

Nina: I don’t want to have any issues so ima day this now… my stalker will probably be here later on this evening… I need him to get the rest of the boxes out the guest house into garage and help me with the kids… 3:03 PM 

Me: Ok 3:09 PM 

Nina: Jealous that he’s stopping by? I know you are. Maybe I will lure him into my bed. 3:26 PM 

Me: Really? 3:33 PM 

Nina: Maybe you and I should have a long term booty call… if that’s what you want to call it… 3:45 PM 

Me: Smh 3:45 PM 

Nina: I’m thinking we are talking at this point and maybe grow into a relationship… but at this point you’re still single and so am I. I don’t look at everything in a bad eye and we were speaking about sex when I mentioned getting bored.. 3:46 PM 

Nina: I only meant that if you keep getting up and going down that I will get bored with it… had nothing to do with a relationship at all… but you always bring relationships into the mix 3:47 PM 

Me: Because I don’t consider myself single and looking, this is how you ruin things and you said you don’t want to ruin it. 3:57 PM 

Nina: I understand what you’re saying. But I’m not looking. I have enough on my plate. My plate is full. But I know that I am still single and have no obligations to anyone or anything but the kiddos… when it comes to “us” it will take a long time to get to a relationship status because I think we clash more then we get along… I’m trying to think positive but it’s kinda hard when you bring up relationships constantly but we aren’t doing “relationship things”… 4:01 PM 

Nina: Sex from me came free for you, no meal, no dates etc.. because I really liked you… most guys messing with me have to come out of something to get something 4:02 PM 

Nina: but I tried a different approach with you.. and i will never do that again with anyone.. seriously. It’s not a good look or feel. 4:02 PM 

Nina: Ima charge my phone And change my clothes real quick.. I’ll talk back to you when it’s strong enough to take off charger. I’m on 4% 4:03 PM 

Me: Sex came free for me? It came free for you, I told you I wanted to wait (until we’ve progressed a little further) because I don’t want you (or anybody else) to have the feeling that it’s about sex. That was exactly my point. But so far we didn’t really have a chance to do much because of my crappy schedule. I love going out to lunch / dinner, I love movies, the water, traveling… I told you that and it’s true. 4:06 PM 

Me: ttyl then, I’m at work now. 4:06 PM 

Nina: After I said I will never speak of sex again… and you pushed the issue and it became the subject of most… then it was a chase for me… a game to me… so I got it.. had nothing to do with what you wanted or didn’t want at that point. And I definitely didn’t feel used.. still don’t.. 4:28 PM 

Nina: I don’t process things like most I think rational and then irrational. I either y’all myself into or talk myself out of it… when it comes to you I just talk based on how I’m feeling… if I feel like you dealing with you… I will if not I don’t. I’m saying this in the most thoughtful way… I left one fucked off marriage to get into another one and even that went south. I will NOT ever do it again and you tell me never say never… but I’m already convinced that it won’t happen. I wouldn’t even entertain it. I think I’m beyond relationships at this point in my life because I’m trying to reason with myself and find one thing a man can do for me (besides a baby) that I can’t do for myself.. and I say fuck it… I don’t need a man.. just sex sometimes when I’m up for it and not when I’m not 4:32 PM 

Nina: I tried to give you a fair chance but I can’t take this either you want a relationship or you don’t, either you wanna work for it or you don’t I mean come on…. 4:32 PM 

Me: It’s not about what a man can do for you, it’s about 2 people in a relationship becoming one 4:34 PM 

Me: But of course just do what you think is best for you ? 4:34 PM 

Nina: I have never been hooked on sex with or too anybody. So like any other man with me if I get it again I get it… if not oh well. And even though my sex count (men) is low… this is where I am at in my life… I figured as long as my stalker is still lurking (and keeping clean)… I can have sex whenever I need it 4:35 PM 

Me: lol, ok Nina 4:38 PM 

Nina: Don’t you lol at me ? 4:41 PM 

Nina: I seriously like you… I said it before I feel in love with this idea you were pitching… so I fell in love with a happily ever after and that’s far from reality. I like you, I admire your positive attitude..but I’m not about to “act right, chase or change for any man 4:47 PM 

Nina: this is me babe… nothing has changed about me since January… I’ve always been very strong minded person with drive and always had that thought process that what you can’t do for me another man can. It’s a package deal 4:47 PM 

Nina: I like the idea of us being the bestest of friends 4:53 PM 

Nina: This is for the garage conversion. Since the ducts can’t extend to the garage 4:54 PM 

Me: They do extend in the garage, im on it 6:16 PM 

Nina: Oops ? 6:27 PM 

Me: Yeah right, lol 6:28 PM 

Me: ????????? 6:28 PM 

Nina: I was texting Julia and sent you by mistake ? 6:47 PM 

Me: hey, no problem Nina 6:51 PM 

Me: I hope everything is going well 7:28 PM 

Nina: Everything is good. Just leaving my electrician on my way home. 8:29 PM 

Nina: My stalker just told me his daughter has lice from my kids ?? 8:29 PM 

Me: oh my 8:39 PM 

Nina: Yea story of my life… 9:08 PM 

Nina: I swear lighting is a serious thing. Lol. I have no problem with shopping for what I like… but lighting… I just don’t get electricity 9:08 PM 

Nina: So no panic rooms or anything? Ima call it an early night tonight. 9:09 PM 

Me: Getting really busy here at work, we have a situation. Ttyl 9:15 PM

Nina: Ok 9:16 PM

Hanging in there and try or give up and walk away.

At this post I was torn between those 2 possibilities

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