Dating Andrea texting gets weird

Andrea – things getting even more weird

Yesterday’s conversation took an unexpected turn with Andrea acting weird.

But there are no limits when it’s about weird conversations!

Andrea:  Hello, so is this you today or am I speaking to the other person? 1:15 PM 

Andrea:  I dont need an expedited friendship 1:15 PM 

Andrea:  Sex, money, a TEXT BUDDY either…. 1:16 PM 

Me: Hey, there is no other person, only me. 1:16 PM 

Andrea:  So at least we end with something we both have in common. 1:16 PM 

Me: oh, so we “end”? I see 1:17 PM 

Me: I didn’t know that this is what you want, ok 1:17 PM 

Andrea:  U said this…u r a confused man 1:18 PM 

Andrea:  R you speeding up your text, because u r on a lunch break….lol 1:20 PM 

Me: actually I am pretty intelligent, lol. At 1:07PM I texted:despite all circumstances – I keep telling you that I would like to meet you and get to know the person you are. Whether this will lead to a love relationship or “only” to a being friends relationship – I don’t know (yet). 1:20 PM 

Me: again I will work 4 – 12 today but I should have some lunch, excellent idea. And some meditation time. Ttyl 1:21 PM 

Andrea:  And at a time like this….texting is NOT the proper forum to end something 1:22 PM 

Andrea:  Mr. intelligent, would you not agree. 1:23 PM 

Andrea:  No need to ttyl… 1:23 PM 

Andrea:  I’m done with this game 1:24 PM 

Me: I’m sorry that you see this as a game, it’s actually not a game but this is about real people with real feelings. I pray that you don’t hurt other peoples feelings like you tried to hurt me. I also pray that what ever got hold of you that you made you so suspicious and bitter will be released from you so that you can get happy 2:46 PM 

Andrea:  (1/2) Listen u don’t know me so i an not the least concerned Abbott your opinion of me. I never TRIED to hurt u…lol…that doesn’t make any since, I AM VERY HAPPY, i DO NOT need another person to validate who I am, especially a STRANGER WHO ONLY COMMUNICATES VIA TEXT. 3:08 PM 

Andrea:  SO WHILE YOU ARE PRAYING, U ask for forgiveness of your dishonesty. 3:09 PM 

Andrea:  Silly…only scammers try to hurt people they dont know. 3:12 PM 

Me: Good for you, ok. No need to get angry. 3:12 PM 

Andrea:  I’m not angry, i dont do well with LIES 3:13 PM 

Me: Again, I didn’t lie. Actually you did (kind of – “average”? Hm….) 3:16 PM 

Andrea:  What????? 3:16 PM 

Me: I explained that before (body type “average”) – but yes, it depends on the eye of the beholder I guess 🙂 3:18 PM 

Me: Do you think I lied to you? If yes, with what? 3:18 PM 

Andrea:  Please..I’m better than “AVERAGE” 3:18 PM 

Me: ok 3:22 PM 

Andrea:  So don’t question my average 3:23 PM 

Me: ok 3:25 PM 

Andrea:  Ok..done 3:28 PM 

Andrea:  U have your compute, and your okcupid, I’m sure the is someone there that is not 3:29 PM 

Andrea:  Controlling 3:30 PM 

Andrea:  Bitter 3:30 PM 

Andrea:  Demanding 3:30 PM 

Andrea:  An awful kisser 3:30 PM 

Me: ok 3:30 PM 

Andrea:  And will not try to hurt you 3:31 PM 

Me: “awful” kisser, lol, I never said that. 3:31 PM 

Andrea:  Or your scam 3:31 PM 

Andrea:  Ok 3:31 PM 

Andrea:  Ok 3:31 PM 

Andrea:  Ok 3:31 PM 

Andrea:  Ok 3:31 PM 

Andrea:  Ok 3:31 PM 

Andrea:  Ok 3:31 PM 

(Yes, she kept typing “Ok” and kept repeating stuff)

Andrea:  She, would b an awful kisser….. 3:38 PM 

Andrea:  NOT ME….LOL 3:39 PM 

Andrea:  PLEASE B AN ADULT RIGHT NOW……..OK 3:39 PM 

Andrea:  PLEASE B AN ADULT RIGHT NOW……..OK 3:39 PM 

Andrea:  PLEASE B AN ADULT RIGHT NOW……..OK 3:39 PM 

Andrea:  PLEASE B AN ADULT RIGHT NOW……..OK 3:39 PM 

Me: I never said anything about you being an awful kisser. Driving to work now. 3:41 PM 

Andrea:  (1/2) I TRIED TO SPEAK WITH YOU CORDIALLY OVER THE PHONE, U REFUSED TO ANSWER, SO STOP TEXTING ME, LIKE A SCAMNER, AND CALL LIKE AN ADULT. IF YOU WISH TO EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS. 3:42 PM 

Me: sorry about that 4:24 PM 

Andrea:  Y r u sorry 4:40 PM 

Me: that I had to get of the phone so abruptly. But you said something that make me realize that it probably won’t work with us: because YOU don’t believe it in the first place. Our conversations are “draining” for you and you never had such an (awful) experience before, so no matter what I think – if you think it won’t work then it won’t work. I’ll leave you alone, take care. 4:47 PM 

Andrea:  Wow…I was referring to all of the suspicion.. 4:52 PM 

Andrea:  The suspicion is draining 4:52 PM 

Andrea:  You pick every word apart….but i understand, i was just curious…… 4:53 PM 

Andrea:  Why were you so pursuant with me….just curious 4:53 PM 

Andrea:  And you said it won’t work not me… 4:54 PM 

Andrea:  These are your words that you accuse me of…. (1/3)that I had to get of the phone so abruptly. But you said something that make me realize that it probably won’t work with us: because YOU don’t believe it 4:55 PM 

Andrea:  Answer me 4:56 PM 

Me: I meant what I said, I think that we might have gotten along very well because we also had some good conversations, I’m probably more the opposite of “bossy” and again, many things probably wouldn’t have happened in person or simply disappear after establishing some trust 4:57 PM 

Andrea:  I’m sure you did, but you stated that i said it would not work. 5:01 PM 

Andrea:  (k – if you think it won’t work then it won’t work. I’ll leave you alone, take care. 5:02 PM 

Andrea:  Sorry it didn’t work, i will take care 5:02 PM 

Andrea:  Will thou b cladding my case file? 5:17 PM 

Andrea:  Will you be canceling my case file? 5:20 PM 

Me: no need to say that “case file”, what good should come out by the choice of your words? This is when I say “hurts…” – there is no need to say it like that 5:37 PM 

Andrea:  Tim, you want it then you don’t , then you want it again then you don’t…. 5:38 PM 

Andrea:  WHICH ONE IS IT. 5:38 PM 

Me: I’m actually Tom, not Tim. Tim is the Nigerian scammer, please organize YOUR case files better, Ma’am 5:39 PM 

Andrea:  OOOPS TOM 5:39 PM 

Andrea:  LOL….STOP, this is not a time for Jokes 5:40 PM 

Andrea:  Tim, you want it then you don’t , then you want it again then you don’t…. 5:40 PM 

Andrea:  Tim, you want it then you don’t , then you want it again then you don’t…. 5:40 PM 

Andrea:  WHICH ONE IS IT. 5:41 PM 

Andrea:  WHICH ONE IS IT. 5:41 PM 

Andrea:  Are you confused… 5:41 PM 

Andrea:  Or just unhappy. 5:42 PM 

Andrea:  Its hard texting two people at one time….oh i forgot……you’re coding 5:44 PM 

Me: see, no need to say that (coding), making fun of my job? Trying to hurt me? Am I saying thing like that? Trying to make “fun” of you (except the “Tim” thing)? 5:48 PM 

Andrea:  But you made it, still ensure the questions 5:52 PM 

Andrea:  Its hard texting two people at one time….oh i forgot……you’re coding 5:52 PM 

Andrea:  Its hard texting two people at one time….oh i forgot……you’re coding 5:52 PM 

Andrea:  you want it then you don’t , then you want it again then you don’t…. 5:52 PM 

Me: stop playing Andrea and tell me what you want: I don’t want to make your life miserable (draining… you are very unhappy with me, I am rough….). 5:57 PM 

Andrea:  I as ked you a question…please answer 5:58 PM 

Me: I would like to meet you and get to know and find out who you are – wherever it might lead 6:03 PM 

Me: silence? 6:41 PM 

Andrea:  I think texting confuses our conversations, shoo when you get a break, you can call if you feel like it. 6:43 PM 

Andrea:  Just having dinner with a friend 6:43 PM 

Me: enjoy your meal 6:50 PM 

Andrea:  Thanks 6:51 PM 

Andrea:  Try not to get so stressed at work, now you will not have to worry about lag time, while texting one person. 6:53 PM 

Andrea:  Have a good night 6:53 PM 

Me: now you will not have to worry about lag time, while texting one person? 7:21 PM 

Andrea:  Have a good night dear, I’m sure you appreciated this break. 11:02 PM 

Me: “break”? That means it’s not over…. yet? 11:13 PM 

Andrea:  Lol….u r too funny 11:16 PM 

Andrea:  We will see if you plan on being serious. 11:17 PM 

Me: yes Ma’am, I actually am. Too bad that you only see it every now and then 11:17 PM 

Andrea:  Did you miss me? 11:21 PM 

Andrea:  Guess not….lol 11:25 PM 

Me: Yes Linda. Oops, Brenda…. wait, Cherie… just a sec. case file #489879879 – Andrea – yes, Andrea, I missed you – big time! You’re my one and only 11:25 PM 

Andrea:  Lol….ok 11:27 PM 

Me: you have no idea how much fun you will miss if you don’t date me 11:28 PM 

Andrea:  I will keep that in the forefront of my mind. 11:29 PM 

Me: I am sure you will, sweet dreams 11:31 PM 

Andrea:  How did i suddenly become your one and only?;-) G2g to bed dream about me, I am your one and only 11:32 PM 

Again a weird conversation.

Time to leave her alone – or not?

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